what happened to the unwritten law or the courtesy to slow down when your wake could effect a smaller boat....visited N.J. in 1980 after being in FL.for 20 years and could not believe the wakes that the boats in the marina had to put up with....now it goes on every day in FL.......Lucky to be alive tonite after a incident between me and my 15 ' skiff and a 65 ' piece of ^&$# in the intercoastal.... I ran the ditch, N & S , for many years and always slowed for other boats.....what has changed??? is it an ego thing ???