Welcome Pip,
I've been boating for over 50 years and making my living running them for 20. I wouldn't own a boat if you bought it for me. (Truth is I'm addicted and probably would have to if I couldn't make my living on them god forbid, but for the past 20 it's worked). Remember, the best boat in the world is the one your friend owns or better still the one you get paid to be on.
I only found this site recently myself. (I was hoping to die before I had to learn computers, but the world caught up). I've seen some good ideas, some wisdom and some______. Much like talking with people on the dock. It's a pretty good place to hang out, enjoy and learn. Have fun.